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The vast majority of men are incredibly easy to outcompete. Start by not being an asshole to her and about 90% (or more) of the competition will be eating your
by Mz 9y ago
The vast majority of men are incredibly easy to outcompete. Start by not being an asshole to her and about 90% (or more) of the competition will be eating your dust right out the gate.
- hiram112 9y agoYeah right. Try being really short or bald or the wrong color (the OKCupid stats show that race plays a larger factor than we'd like to admit). How nice or courteous you are won't even be a factor, because you won't get any messages. Being a 'nice guy' is probably the worst advice you could possibly give to a guy having trouble with women. There are a lot of things one can control, but a lot of things that can't be changed. And knowing the difference, and working on that which can be improved is what men need to learn.
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- Double_a_92 9y agoSaying "Hey, how are you?" does make me an asshole?
- Mz 9y agoIt depends on the context and your intentions.
- reinhardt 9y agoNo, just an uncreative generic guy like the previous 99 that messaged her pretty much the same boring question earlier this week.
- Double_a_92 9y agoCan you give me an example of a "creative" message that you could send to a total stranger that you have 2-3 images of, that are not compliments regarding their looks?