TLDR: "The very label I live with causes such Big Feels in anyone who hears me utter those words that it is a huge, exhausting derail to ordinary conversation.

TLDR: "The very label I live with causes such Big Feels in anyone who hears me utter those words that it is a huge, exhausting derail to ordinary conversation. So, most of the time, I would rather just not go there. Kaythxbai." I can relate.