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> "It's important to associate with people that are better than yourself." We hear this repeated often, but how does it really work? It's impossible to do if e
by bambax 9y ago
> "It's important to associate with people that are better than yourself."
We hear this repeated often, but how does it really work? It's impossible to do if everyone tries to follow this advice, because if you associate with people who are better than yourself, then they themselves being with you associate themselves with people worse than themselves.
It only works if we consider "better" in multiple dimensions; I associate with people who are better than me in a given dimension, while I'm better than them in some other dimension.
But then isn't it simply trivial / obvious that everyone is better at something and worse at something else?
- tossaway1 9y agoI think they have to be better than you in something you care about (or aspire to be better at) for it to matter to you. Seems like you're overcomplicating this... :-)
- 11thEarlOfMar 9y agoProbably a little more practical to say, "Be sure that some of the people you associate with are better than yourself."