Stick with the girl. Use the offer in negotiations for a better local job. Love is way more important than career as long as you're not poor. I chose the girl

Stick with the girl. Use the offer in negotiations for a better local job. Love is way more important than career as long as you're not poor. I chose the girl (dropped out of college and started working in my career at a low level to afford housing together) and ended up making waay more money in the long run thanks to her help.