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We live in a world where we should manage our stress instead of avoiding our stressors.

• Broken_Hippo 9y ago
  Not really. It depends on the stressors you have. It isn't like everyone can avoid their stressors, like death of a loved one. Some stressful things aren't really things one wants to avoid either - Entering a new marriage or moving can be really stressful. I had all three of those particular ones within a short time frame. My father died one May, I got married in July, and moved overseas at the beginning of August. Other stressors have more flexibility. My ex-husband causes a great deal of stress, and I eventually left him. After that (and before I moved away), I avoided him. Managing or avoiding really depends on the situation. And really, being able to avoid stress (when possible) depends on a person being able to manage their own stress enough to say enough is enough.