I'm not sure that's it. Because the unselfish person in this scenario finds themselves giving, and others wantonly taking advantage of any kindness (theirs, or

I'm not sure that's it. Because the unselfish person in this scenario finds themselves giving, and others wantonly taking advantage of any kindness (theirs, or others'), the empathic sort would probably feel more disheartened by witnessing mistreatment than to notice their own.