Here's the fix: don't compare yourself to others - compare your today's self to your tomorrow's self (ie: grow your own abilites instead). I really suggest rea

Here's the fix: don't compare yourself to others - compare your today's self to your tomorrow's self (ie: grow your own abilites instead). I really suggest reading "Nonviolent Communication" (http://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Marshall-Rosenberg/dp/1892005034 http://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Mars...), which gives a lot of insight on these topics.