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So, in you opinion, which things should I have phrased differently? I think everyone agrees that rape is worse than rejection. For messages - well, I cover th

• IgorPartola 9y ago
  I would say that “guys have it tough” is the wrong way to phrase it. I’d say that as women tend to be more careful in selecting who they engage with. Your reasoning as to why is actually quite good, but it’s not that men have it tougher. It’s that women are more careful. Maybe “women have to be more selective” is a good heading for that section. As a anecdote, I have a friend who will go on a date with literally anyone. If they talk to him, he will do whatever it takes to see them, even if they are not his type, by whatever definition. Women rarely engage in this behavior. That doesn’t mean men have it tough, just that the threat to him is much lower than to a woman in an equivalent situation. Studying non-hetero dating is also a fun comparison, as it highlights a lot of the heteronormative behavior lots of people take for granted.