Basically, only a small portion of sexual assaults end up reported to police, and our culture at large handles consent pretty poorly. The law says sex without c

Basically, only a small portion of sexual assaults end up reported to police, and our culture at large handles consent pretty poorly. The law says sex without consent is illegal, but society has little idea what consent is nor norms to encourage doing it affirmatively, so you end up in this mess, especially when assault is almost encouraged in some contexts. It doesn't help that, odds are, you won't get in trouble for it. Unfortunately it's a tricky problem with no easy solutions.