Are you married yourself? Most people are pretty good on 1-5 most of the time. That's the key part though, "most of the time". The thing that gets a relationshi

Are you married yourself? Most people are pretty good on 1-5 most of the time. That's the key part though, "most of the time". The thing that gets a relationship is how frequently things fall apart, because they will. 90% of the time? Yeah, dump it. 10% of the time? Things are still bad, jettison it. 0.001% of the time? Who knows. This also precludes the inevitable terrible boss, infertility issues and the hormones that come from 'fixing' them, MiLs, etc. Things in a marriage are also the things that happen outside of it. So yeah, I'd say most marriages are 99% in line with 1-5, the trick is the 'error' rate.