When you have been married decades, for me, this article has "historical" relevance. As in our past. I would not say it's a gender thing though Everything be

When you have been married decades, for me, this article has "historical" relevance. As in our past. I would not say it's a gender thing though Everything became clear to us once "we were at the head of the table." when both sets of parents died. Our greater understanding of each other gained clarity when we were parentless.