> was fat, lazy and a boring conversationalist. Obviously she was also amazing or the 4 years never happens Well (for the defense!) I could argue that you were

> was fat, lazy and a boring conversationalist. Obviously she was also amazing or the 4 years never happens Well (for the defense!) I could argue that you were tied to her for other reasons and/or were co-dependent. After all people stay in abusive and bad relationships frequently and not just for money reasons for all sorts of emotional reasons.