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Why should you be ashamed of this?
by eradicatethots 9y ago
Why should you be ashamed of this?
- cmiles74 9y agoI think automatically jumping to a defensive posture, even when one isn't being attacked (or there's nothing to defend) isn't a great response. It seems reasonable that I should be able to listen to someone else's gripes without jumping to the conclusion that I am somehow to blame. In this article, it seemed to me that the author's goal was to try and get recognition for work performed, not to make their partner feel like they were not doing enough.
- eradicatethots 9y agoPeople usually don’t express their goals. And what’s the harm in being defensive? If you’re wrong they c an explain that to you