> These decisions are made by two people, not one. But they are affecting one of those people more than the other. So they should factor it in. There should b

> These decisions are made by two people, not one. But they are affecting one of those people more than the other. So they should factor it in. There should be implicit thinking "if we get separated later in life, then what?" > Don't like it? Don't have a stay at home family. I have no trust that alimony will only be applied to stay at home mothers, and not extended to any women with any earning capability. And that is a trust issue right there that is damaging marriage as an institution.