Who's "normalizing" anything? By that argument we shouldn't try to understand why anyone does anything we deem negative, and I would hope we can all agree that

Who's "normalizing" anything? By that argument we shouldn't try to understand why anyone does anything we deem negative, and I would hope we can all agree that's incredibly silly. Understanding "why" helps us understand how to prevent it from happening to people. This article, in particular, is a great piece for people in healthy relationships to read, because it teaches an important lesson: you are not immune.