It is mostly based on a few interactions. We don't have to look out for givers or takers when we meet someone the first time or only a few times. And 'not-to-d

It is mostly based on a few interactions. We don't have to look out for givers or takers when we meet someone the first time or only a few times. And 'not-to-do' list is something that is meant for your memory. I would keep these lists in the mac dashboard (sticky pads). Since I did not know when I would need them, having them in front of the eyes was a constant reminder. Once they were sufficiently ingrained, they would go to a docs (out of the sticky pads). I feel the need for a not-to-do list again. Actually, I also had a when in doubt list (this was because I said 'yes' too often). It had a few points like - (1) does it help me get better at running a startup, (2) does it help me get healthier, and (3) do I have a reason why I am doing it... Anyone else :-) When 'in-a-doubt' list...