Of course. But the problem is the expectation at large in the macroculture (I'm speaking largely of American macroculture, where I live) of monosexuality by par

Of course. But the problem is the expectation at large in the macroculture (I'm speaking largely of American macroculture, where I live) of monosexuality by participants of all sexes. In other words, it's a sociocultural problem. Are there people who have figured out how to escape it? Yes, but still a minute fraction. Furthermore, the judgement those people (myself included) face by family and sometimes friends is another part of the problem.