You see I dispute this. If you just break up with someone and tell them it's just no good (or even all those things you did are too much to take) then that can

You see I dispute this. If you just break up with someone and tell them it's just no good (or even all those things you did are too much to take) then that can leave them feeling even worse. Again we are all talking in massive generalities and no two situations are exactly the same - which is why we shouldn't have a totalitarian view on this issue.