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> And they have other men in their lives too? Haven't really thought about that. I guess it depends on the relationship I have with them. If we live together I

> And they have other men in their lives too? Haven't really thought about that. I guess it depends on the relationship I have with them. If we live together I rather like them to be bisexual, but I guess it would be ok for me to live like a collective and for them to enjoy other men. But then I would like to know these men and perhaps even live with them and the women. > You have some funny beliefs, and you'll find a thriving polyamory community out there that many women take part in. Well, I just like to enjoy life as much as possible because I am going to be dead for a long effing time.

Nursie 9y ago
Ha! I was half expecting you to come back "Of course not, the very idea !!!?!" Seriously, if that seems like something you're interested in, there are a lot of people out there who agree with you, of both/all genders, many who are bisexual as well. Look up some local poly meetups, there are lots around (though you may have more luck finding them in major cities). Best of luck.
- staticelf 9y ago
  Haha, I have looked up some but most people who are into this seem a lot older than me and kind of ugly for most of the time. I understand this may of course differ completely from people to people. I don't really want any kind of relationship right now though, since I am focusing on work and myself. But I will probably do this later, thanks.
  - Nursie 9y ago
    Ssssshhhh, we celebrate diversity these days, nobody is supposed to point out that the poly crowd are usually a little ... odd.
Retra 9y ago
>I am going to be dead for a long effing time. See... I think that thought and I continue with "what does it matter if I'm only with one person? My contribution to the world is not going to be based on how sexually satisfied I am." I have whatever sex I need to get it off my mind so that I can work on my hobbies and interests without distraction. "I'm going to be dead" is just as much a reason to be miserable as it is a reason to be happy. (That is, they have nothing to do with each other whatsoever.)
- betenoire 9y ago
  If we agree that being happy is better than being miserable, and time is limited resource, then yeah, it is logical to favor and seek happiness over misery.
  - Retra 9y ago
    Being happy is better than being miserable, all else being equal. It's just that all else isn't equal. There are things worth dying for. So naturally there are things worth being miserable for.
- staticelf 9y ago
  I disagree about the reason to be miserable since no one wants to be miserable. But otherwise I agree and am practially doing the same thing as you are at the moment. :)

Nursie 9y ago

Ha! I was half expecting you to come back "Of course not, the very idea !!!?!" Seriously, if that seems like something you're interested in, there are a lot of people out there who agree with you, of both/all genders, many who are bisexual as well. Look up some local poly meetups, there are lots around (though you may have more luck finding them in major cities). Best of luck.

staticelf 9y ago
Haha, I have looked up some but most people who are into this seem a lot older than me and kind of ugly for most of the time. I understand this may of course differ completely from people to people. I don't really want any kind of relationship right now though, since I am focusing on work and myself. But I will probably do this later, thanks.
- Nursie 9y ago
  Ssssshhhh, we celebrate diversity these days, nobody is supposed to point out that the poly crowd are usually a little ... odd.

Retra 9y ago

>I am going to be dead for a long effing time. See... I think that thought and I continue with "what does it matter if I'm only with one person? My contribution to the world is not going to be based on how sexually satisfied I am." I have whatever sex I need to get it off my mind so that I can work on my hobbies and interests without distraction. "I'm going to be dead" is just as much a reason to be miserable as it is a reason to be happy. (That is, they have nothing to do with each other whatsoever.)

betenoire 9y ago
If we agree that being happy is better than being miserable, and time is limited resource, then yeah, it is logical to favor and seek happiness over misery.
- Retra 9y ago
  Being happy is better than being miserable, all else being equal. It's just that all else isn't equal. There are things worth dying for. So naturally there are things worth being miserable for.
staticelf 9y ago
I disagree about the reason to be miserable since no one wants to be miserable. But otherwise I agree and am practially doing the same thing as you are at the moment. :)