I can relate to your question however I found the problem is more so the fact that I get lazy around my partner. When I was single and miserable in my little a

I can relate to your question however I found the problem is more so the fact that I get lazy around my partner. When I was single and miserable in my little apartment, I was superbly productive at night, would get so much done over one weekend. Now though, very different story... I get home and we eat like a family, we follow tv shows religiously and when bed time comes, I have a hard time giving real reasons to stay up and I'm constently reminded that I'm just "geeking out". Imagine how I feel about kids.