I was watching a coming of age Japanese movie yesterday (Flying Colors) and exactly this was said there. I didn't search it at the time, but I am glad to read t

I was watching a coming of age Japanese movie yesterday (Flying Colors) and exactly this was said there. I didn't search it at the time, but I am glad to read this now and to have it answered. As now I am teaching people I will strongly take it into consideration when praising, however I wonder how much it differs from adults and kids.