Can we try to move away from phrases like "Grow a pair"? It's such a classically unhelpful line. I feel like this isn't even being too nitpicky -- women can't g

Can we try to move away from phrases like "Grow a pair"? It's such a classically unhelpful line. I feel like this isn't even being too nitpicky -- women can't grow a pair, and saying that men lack a pair is nothing more than an insult. The underlying message is "shut up and deal with it," which is also unhelpful. People can feel how they feel, and there is no shame in expressing those feelings in a productive way.