Or maybe it shows how little progress we've made. In other words, we're deluding ourselves with an illusion of progress. What does it mean when Obama flipped

Or maybe it shows how little progress we've made. In other words, we're deluding ourselves with an illusion of progress. What does it mean when Obama flipped his view (evolved) in 2012? And, every serious 2008 POTUS candidate was against gay marriage. So today we have broad support for gay marriage. Great -- certainly good news for my mainstream gay friends and cowoerkers (and by extension, for me). But is that real progress? Or have we simply said something like, "your lifestyle is fine, as long as it looks a lot like our established mainstream lifestyle." We pat ourselves on the back for accepting gays. How many coworkers do you have with facial tattoos? How many cross dressing coworkers? How many coworkers who are proud and open about being swingers, or nudists?