Very fair point. In fact, my wife actually knows my phones passcode for the exact same reason. „Open book“ was definitely the wrong phrasing here, I wasn‘t tryi

Very fair point. In fact, my wife actually knows my phones passcode for the exact same reason. „Open book“ was definitely the wrong phrasing here, I wasn‘t trying to say that you have to keep everything secret from your spouse. Just that the exact opposite of that also strikes me as very distrusting.