When you have a family, you can do it with planning, foresight, and an ability to provide for your children and raise them well. Or you can do it without those

When you have a family, you can do it with planning, foresight, and an ability to provide for your children and raise them well. Or you can do it without those things, which is usually what happens in the situation you described. So having a family this way is different from a trailer park the same that a normal couple planning to have 4 kids together that they can afford to provide for differs from a trailer park couple having 4 kids they didn't think about having, weren't ready for, and can't provide adequately for.