Well, there's a lot more reasons to go to NYC than to go to Menlo park. I don't think the same would apply in the opposite direction -- few people would say "I

Well, there's a lot more reasons to go to NYC than to go to Menlo park. I don't think the same would apply in the opposite direction -- few people would say "I live in Menlo Park and I'd sooner come hang out with you in NYC than in SF"