I did a lot after school ages 19-23. Now after work I want to play games, spend time with my girlfriend, watch movies, and read books. And if I want to code, it

I did a lot after school ages 19-23. Now after work I want to play games, spend time with my girlfriend, watch movies, and read books. And if I want to code, it's to learn an interesting technology (sometimes I mix this with contributing). It seems that unless programming is your main hobby, it's hard to find the time to do it.