For them to struggle at something that (per your own comparison) you seem to think of as possible to do in a way so that it is worthy of praise (because you've

For them to struggle at something that (per your own comparison) you seem to think of as possible to do in a way so that it is worthy of praise (because you've compared them to ones who could do it in a praise-worthy way) shouldn't really be something that you have no sympathy towards, if you want everyone to do it the best way..? [Unless you mean that they are intentionally 'cheating', so to speak, and capable but self-centered]