feeling like i am stupid and naive for trying to do things the "right" way You are in the forrest with no GPS Take a very deep dive into your family tree. As

feeling like i am stupid and naive for trying to do things the "right" way You are in the forrest with no GPS Take a very deep dive into your family tree. Ask how and why with each relative or dead tree. I found hard work. I also found this: greatness by association is hollow and shallow. Dont be bothered analysing other people or other families.