Please put an e-mail in your profile. If you don't want to be identified use something like hushmail. I'm certain there are many people here that can relate to

Please put an e-mail in your profile. If you don't want to be identified use something like hushmail. I'm certain there are many people here that can relate to your problems, but most of them might not want to speak up in a public forum about these issues and may prefer to contact you privately. There was a somewhat similar post a few months back (http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=937430 http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=937430) where the submitter was urged to set up an e-mail for private conversations. I think it might have helped him/her to talk to othe HN'ers in private.