> Like, for the bystander effect to apply a person has to care and then think "someone should do something". Its the idea that someone can instead just not care

> Like, for the bystander effect to apply a person has to care and then think "someone should do something". Its the idea that someone can instead just not care even superficially that is disturbing. To me, the idea that someone think "someone should do something" about that "something" is disturbing. But this is HN, the place where those that make $100k/year a more wax poetically about the plight of poor people in third world countries while munching on the cheese and drinking the wine thinking that it is the waxing that counts.