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Armchair conclusion: false. Introverts are more likely to use online dating sites and engage down other avenues that would not be natural, but rather virtual.
by treehau5 9y ago
Armchair conclusion: false. Introverts are more likely to use online dating sites and engage down other avenues that would not be natural, but rather virtual.
I don't know many of my jock friends growing up that had a "girlfriend" in an MMO, as an example.
- wnevets 9y agoArmchair conclusion: false. As an introvert even online interaction with people can be exhausting.
- saint_fiasco 9y agoVirtual socialization is more of a shy extrovert thing. An introvert will get exhausted after a lot of socialization, virtual or physical.
- Bartweiss 9y agoOnline dating sounds incredibly high socialization to me. You scan through dozens of people in quick succession and interact with many of them. Talking to a single stranger in real life is way less demanding than that. You're right to distinguish shyness from extroversion; as someone who became less shy without becoming any less introverted, it's not a clear association.
- Chaebixi 9y agoThose things are not at all alike. Bartending means accidental social interaction; using an online dating site is deliberate. If you're in a relationship and using an online dating site, the relationship is probably already deeply on the rocks. If you're a bartender, you're more likely to accidentally meet someone you click with without even trying, which might imperil a relationship that's doing pretty well.