Taking it further, I'm under no obligation to call anyone or anything using the nomenclature or styling that they've chosen for themselves, or had chosen for th

Taking it further, I'm under no obligation to call anyone or anything using the nomenclature or styling that they've chosen for themselves, or had chosen for them. But that's not my argument. My argument is that whoever possesses a particular identity should be the ultimate arbiter of the "correct" way to represent it.