Huh. I was gonna type a lot of this, but you've saved me the trouble. I did want to signal boost the stoicism part, though. There are a lot of good mental heal

Huh. I was gonna type a lot of this, but you've saved me the trouble. I did want to signal boost the stoicism part, though. There are a lot of good mental health practices available in modern stoicism that tend to appeal highly to nerds and other logical types. I can't recommend the following book enough: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0195374614/ref=pd_aw_sim_14_1?ie=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=TGJ9AQ1YSK1980NGZ9DT&dpPl=1&dpID=41oP29YgLtL https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0195374614/ref=pd_aw_sim_14_1... I reread it every couple years and it has definitely helped a lot with my feelings of loss and "wasted time." Oh, and getting older. It's incredible how much more mellow I feel at 37 than at 27.