In no way am I advocating a frail and insecure 17-year old going off and paying someone to tell him how to harass women in bars.[1] What I'm taking issue with

In no way am I advocating a frail and insecure 17-year old going off and paying someone to tell him how to harass women in bars.[1] What I'm taking issue with is the idea that you are somehow selling yourself out by making changes to your personality to achieve a given goal. And really, I'm not sure that your frail 17-year old should be trudging off to any professionals[2] before he's tried hitting the gym, doing some travel and getting some hobbies that actually include a decent number of girls. [1] After all you can do that for free, as my fine collection of restraining orders confirms. [2] With the obvious disclaimer that if he's mentally ill he should go seek help.