I find that a lot of people these days are super judgmental about others... How much influence does he have? Who are his friends? Is he a slob or is he financia

I find that a lot of people these days are super judgmental about others... How much influence does he have? Who are his friends? Is he a slob or is he financially valuable? For some I'm sure this is an intimidating factor in why they shy away from meeting new people and growing their social network. Personally, I try to avoid judgement as much as I possibly can (it's harder to do than you think, we all do it to some degree) and see the person and their potential for what can be, and not necessarily for what they are currently branding themselves. I help whenever I can, but more often than not they don't need the help (or really probably just don't want it) ... Ultimately, relationships are valuable to me, not just to have someone to drink a beer with, or to make a deal with, but to relate to and share in the experiences of the human condition. And there are a lot of people out there who want to do the same! But people who are genuine, sincere, and have a lust for life and other people, are a real rare breed these days. When you meet them, hang on to them with force, because they're the ones who make life really worth living for!