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And if you like that, I would suggest that learning an intricate technique to regularly murder bums and get away with it is another great method to improve self

And if you like that, I would suggest that learning an intricate technique to regularly murder bums and get away with it is another great method to improve self-confidence for the depressed young man.

potatolicious 16y ago
Oh please, I'm no fan of PUA techniques, but comparing that to murdering bums? Get real. More often than not, the picker and the pickee are equally aware of what's happening. It's an elaborate mating dance more than anything else - one that happens to end up in the sack. What, did you think women preen themselves for a night on the town out of some virginal and innocent hope for True Love(tm)? Men and women in clubs/bars are there for similar reasons. Personally, that's not what I'm looking for, but I constantly wonder what of the PUA community I can pilfer for my own ends - certainly, their methods for generating initial interest should be of interest to anyone, even people like me who are looking for relationships more than sex.
- sliverstorm 16y ago
  equally aware? Isn't a PUA's game kind of over if she realizes where he's getting his plays?
  - pfedor 16y ago
    In the book he says that at some point he started telling women openly up front about the game and him being the pick-up artist etc., just to see what happens, and it didn't have much effect on the outcome.
  - Devilboy 16y ago
    It doesn't matter, she knows what you want right from the start.
  - philwelch 16y ago
    A woman on a webforum I used to frequent actually mentioned this--before she knew about PUA's, she would actually reliably recognize them in bars, and figure they were easy lays so she would target them.
- parallax7d 16y ago
  I didn't seriously compare manipulating people to murdering bums, the post had an air of facetiousness to it. But the analogy is valid. The end goal is to satiate animal drives by using people. One may be more extreme, but that is simply to demonstrate the poor logic that justifying this pattern of behavior encompasses.. Personally, murder is not what I'm looking for, but I constantly wonder what the of the bumkill community I can pilfer for my own ends - certainly their methods for generating intense blood lust should be of interest to anyone, even people like me who are looking to kill bears more than men.
  - yalurker 16y ago
    Your analogy is not valid. You're ignoring reality, and the posts above which explain it. You are imagining that the women hooking up with these men are so naive/gullible/stupid that they went home with a guy they just met in a bar, expecting a deep long-term emotional relationship. The truth is, women are a lot smarter than you seem to believe. They know what the men are up to, and they are willing participants. They are not being used. Your analogy would only hold if the bums were intentionally looking to find someone to murder them.

potatolicious 16y ago

Oh please, I'm no fan of PUA techniques, but comparing that to murdering bums? Get real. More often than not, the picker and the pickee are equally aware of what's happening. It's an elaborate mating dance more than anything else - one that happens to end up in the sack. What, did you think women preen themselves for a night on the town out of some virginal and innocent hope for True Love(tm)? Men and women in clubs/bars are there for similar reasons. Personally, that's not what I'm looking for, but I constantly wonder what of the PUA community I can pilfer for my own ends - certainly, their methods for generating initial interest should be of interest to anyone, even people like me who are looking for relationships more than sex.

sliverstorm 16y ago
equally aware? Isn't a PUA's game kind of over if she realizes where he's getting his plays?
- pfedor 16y ago
  In the book he says that at some point he started telling women openly up front about the game and him being the pick-up artist etc., just to see what happens, and it didn't have much effect on the outcome.
- Devilboy 16y ago
  It doesn't matter, she knows what you want right from the start.
- philwelch 16y ago
  A woman on a webforum I used to frequent actually mentioned this--before she knew about PUA's, she would actually reliably recognize them in bars, and figure they were easy lays so she would target them.
parallax7d 16y ago
I didn't seriously compare manipulating people to murdering bums, the post had an air of facetiousness to it. But the analogy is valid. The end goal is to satiate animal drives by using people. One may be more extreme, but that is simply to demonstrate the poor logic that justifying this pattern of behavior encompasses.. Personally, murder is not what I'm looking for, but I constantly wonder what the of the bumkill community I can pilfer for my own ends - certainly their methods for generating intense blood lust should be of interest to anyone, even people like me who are looking to kill bears more than men.
- yalurker 16y ago
  Your analogy is not valid. You're ignoring reality, and the posts above which explain it. You are imagining that the women hooking up with these men are so naive/gullible/stupid that they went home with a guy they just met in a bar, expecting a deep long-term emotional relationship. The truth is, women are a lot smarter than you seem to believe. They know what the men are up to, and they are willing participants. They are not being used. Your analogy would only hold if the bums were intentionally looking to find someone to murder them.