The problem with these things is that you end up stop writing or even talking cause you get so concerned about offending others... English is not my mother ton

The problem with these things is that you end up stop writing or even talking cause you get so concerned about offending others... English is not my mother tongue, and I actually thought here I was being sensitive, cause putting "he" would have implied only males are career oriented, etc. Didn't occur to me I could have put they.