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Attempting to actually have a life outside of the work, eat, sleep cycle and save money is difficult, though. Reading the experiences of "frugal" people suggest
by vertex-four 9y ago
Attempting to actually have a life outside of the work, eat, sleep cycle and save money is difficult, though. Reading the experiences of "frugal" people suggests that they often barely do anything that isn't absolutely required to survive and hold down a job - this must surely be incredibly bad for their mental health from my perspective, but perhaps some people can live like that.
The actual trick is probably to make most of your savings in other places - a smaller house/apartment with less "stuff" to fill it might feel just as good, ensure that you always have some form of pre-cooked food in the house to avoid the temptation of takeout for no reason other than having no energy to cook, figure out whether you can spend less on transport (do you really need the big new car for the one time a year you go on vacation, or could you rent a vehicle or take the Greyhound/Megabus/etc for that weekend?), figure out whether you actually need the latest flagship phone and an unlimited data plan (maybe consuming netflix, youtube, and spotify on the mobile network isn't such a great idea?). These are big-ticket items and it's almost always possible to save significantly on them without changing your lifestyle if you're "comfortably living".
- mattmanser 9y agoThe parent was a bit OTT. The general point is that when you were 22 and earnt bugger all you could still live, now you're 32 and earn a lot more, you live a lot better but never started saving. You should be saving money but you're not. So force yourself to revert some of your positive life-style changes as you actually can't afford them yet. Do it at source, set up a standing order to automatically take the money out just after pay day. Start small, say 1%, and increase it every 3 months maybe? To be honest, the first statement you get of your savings where you earn interest instead of paying it is quite refreshing. And you feel a little smug and a little more mind-at-rest because you know you can deal with disasters.
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