> What if sexual bullying lies deep in male DNA? Not for everyone of course, but for some people. This is a deeply ignorant question. There are plenty of plea

> What if sexual bullying lies deep in male DNA? Not for everyone of course, but for some people. This is a deeply ignorant question. There are plenty of pleasant little sub-cultures in those more progressive parts of the world which for decades-- if not centuries in some places-- have codified their own approaches to this problem (regardless of whether it comes from DNA or learned experience). I'm not saying they are perfect in any way. But the problems these sub-cultures deal with are several levels above the beginner's question of what to do if some people happen to get pleasure out of inflicting pain.