Yea, it's a weakness to have to constantly be evaluating a situation with "Was that because I'm black/female/gay/..." Power comes with the leverage of keeping

Yea, it's a weakness to have to constantly be evaluating a situation with "Was that because I'm black/female/gay/..." Power comes with the leverage of keeping a function DRY and re-using it. One small change is leveraged across everything. Large changes though are unwanted because of the harm than can happen.