> I'm not sure exactly what to do in situations like that, but giving 50% or so of the discussion time to acknowledging those feelings seems like a good startin

> I'm not sure exactly what to do in situations like that, but giving 50% or so of the discussion time to acknowledging those feelings seems like a good starting point? Giving half the time for debate to talk about feelings that are not "debate-able"? Thats probably a waste of time that will derail your debate entirely as people will start debating those feelings.