> "If she's staying with you because she thinks there's going to be some financial payoff then there's something gravely wrong with the relationship." exactly.

> "If she's staying with you because she thinks there's going to be some financial payoff then there's something gravely wrong with the relationship." exactly. instead, just leave the cash on a bureau top or bedside table where she can find it easily. the exchange is still implied on both parts, and you both still win because she gets her money reward earlier and the man doesn't have to worry about being destroyed financially 10 years down the line. (tongue somewhat in cheek)