What I'm saying is: do what you want with your own kids. Feel free to discuss your ideas/concerns with other parents and censure them like anti-vaxxers if you

What I'm saying is: do what you want with your own kids. Feel free to discuss your ideas/concerns with other parents and censure them like anti-vaxxers if you want. BUT if you either 1) don't ask them first and give their kids peanuts or 2) disregard their concerns and give their kids peanuts, and a kid dies because of it, you are culpable and responsible for that kid's death.