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Look, I grew up in The South, more specifically in a small town that got swallowed up by Charlotte when the Yankees were moving down in droves due to the bankin
by cjslep 9y ago
Look, I grew up in The South, more specifically in a small town that got swallowed up by Charlotte when the Yankees were moving down in droves due to the banking and housing boom that took place there (ex: when NationsBank and BofA merged) and there was a lot of "city vs rural", "black vs white", "north vs south", "Christian vs secular", "liberal vs conserative" clashes.
Talk to people like they're a person. Stop making generalizations, yelling in people's faces, hell stop fucking posting on the internet. Pick up a phone, write a letter, go meet face to face and do some good old fashioned talking. This applies to both sides.
Yes, supremacists have always been marching, shouting "free speech" and doing their thing. Ignore them, talk to the other conservatives and liberals like they're people, have a rational discussion about very real grey areas, and don't take their positions to extremes. If you have to, ask them where the line is.
Posting shit on Facebook has been the medium by which tiny towns with their single thought leader (typically a pastor) have been thrust into huge cultural and political discussions and have had their views (via the local leader's) shifted because there's too much crap and shit out there. Both sides have bought into the "internet of faces" of the 2010s and don't remember the "internet of never-post-your-real-name" of the 90s and so take anything with a face as a source of truth.
Finally, the invention of unlimited information on the internet means unlimited opportunity to confirm your own biases, so both sides are falling into this trap as well.
Ultimately, it is a problem of unknowingly self-filtering that can be solved by sitting down with a human being and establishing a real connection.