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This seems so predatory. Instead of proselytizing, why not just hold off and try to understand what this person is going through? Practicing your own human empa
by dodododo 9y ago
This seems so predatory. Instead of proselytizing, why not just hold off and try to understand what this person is going through? Practicing your own human empathy on human terms is far more important than whatever list of teachings you might find out there.
- mythrwy 9y agoThat's one way to look at it. A more charitable view is perhaps they found something that helped and wanted to pass it along.
- spraak 9y agoFirstly I'm really sorry you felt I was being pushy. I don't feel I have anything to gain from what I shared, which is how I interpret proselytizing: my child died. Six weeks ago. So yeah, I'm on a lot of pain, and reading these texts are what have helped me through weeks of tears. Maybe it's inappropriate for me to share that so casually here, but I truly hoped it may help someone else going through death, or being around it. And you're right, I can continue to practice empathy. And for me, these texts point to how to do that... maybe someone else would find it helpful too.
- MGuznoyzner 9y agoFrom the perspective of this impartial atheist you didn't come off as pushy. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find peace.