There are so many anecdotes floating around, both for and against Damore, which attempt to extrapolate the entire female condition from a handful of experience

There are so many anecdotes floating around, both for and against Damore, which attempt to extrapolate the entire female condition from a handful of experiences. But it's hard to tell whether these anecdotes are representative or non-representative of most women - where do these anecdotes fall on the distribution? I think a useful question here is, where am I on the distribution? Do I and my peers represent the average or the tail?