Here is what happens when I connect my iPhone to the USB in my Honda Odyssey, which has a specific iPod input on the menu (as opposed to a generic USB input dev

Here is what happens when I connect my iPhone to the USB in my Honda Odyssey, which has a specific iPod input on the menu (as opposed to a generic USB input device). As soon as I plug it in and select iPhone on the car audio, it starts playing "About a Girl (Nirvana)". I usually want to go to youtube to find a song for the kids, but have to sit through 10 seconds of the song EVERY TIME I PLUG IN THE PHONE. The upside is that my kids have learned to like Nirvana; also, my wife's phone has some spanish language kids music as the first item in the playlist, so it could be worse. But, I'd rather not have the phone decide "you have connected to car audio, PLAY MUSIC TIME HAS ARRIVED!" This doesn't happen with bluetooth, and rarely (???) with headphones.