Psychologically, men and men are way more different than women and men are different between each other as groups (on the average, as tendencies), so this whole

Psychologically, men and men are way more different than women and men are different between each other as groups (on the average, as tendencies), so this whole debate is ill-conceived. The reason why there is still a 'debate' and perceived 'fight' between men and women has to do with human reproduction drives (aka "sex") and its tabooing, and not with any kind of meaningful differences that would allow you to draw conclusions about particular cases. We could just as well discuss whether short employees should be treated on a par with taller employees, or brown-eyed on a par with blue-eyed, and so forth. It's a spurious debate.