The question to actually ask is, does he still do all of this stuff himself? If the answer is no then he failed, not her. If the answer is yes, then he still f

The question to actually ask is, does he still do all of this stuff himself? If the answer is no then he failed, not her. If the answer is yes, then he still failed, not her. He failed in the simple fact that for 12 years he did not value what she was doing for him, in his stead.